“Habits What effect do my habits have on other people?
Good or Bad?
Routine Does my routine supersede others’ needs or interfere with their plans?
Yes or No?
Tardiness Am I consistently tardy, interfering with other people’s schedules or needs?
Yes or No?
Bossy Do I insist on controlling conversations, situations, with my feeling of knowing what is best, what is right, or am I bossy just to get my way?
Yes or No?
Aggressive Does my aggressiveness irritate and/or even destroy another person’s initiative, ideas, or presence?
Yes or No?
Gossip If what I say can be termed gossip, will those who hear me be influenced by it?
Yes or No?
Liar If I tend to lie for attention, those who are victims of my lies, what effect will it have on their morality?
Good or Bad?
Braggart Does my bragging fall on deaf ears or does it irritate others and cause them to respond unkindly or irritably?
Yes or No?
Leech Do I use others to support what I want, in spite of what effect it has on their life?
Am I a clinging vine of interruption or even considered a parasite?
Yes or No?
Egotist Does my egotism interfere with the enjoyment, the progress or the mood of another person or person’s presence?
Yes or No?”
“Attitude
Many decisions I make are based on my attitude.
What is my attitude?
My attitude is picked up by others through my expression on my face, my remarks, my disinterest or interest in something or someone, my tense reaction or my relaxed attitude, and several other obvious signs of my posture in connection to something important or even something unimportant, often results in the decision reflecting my Will.
Dependability
How important is my dependability?
Many areas of my daily life are better or worse, depending on my dependability: Family Matters, Friendships, Workplace, Times of Illnesses, Times of Commitment, Promises. Results of my dependability many times include moral decisions.
Character
My character reflects my stability, my standards of whether or not I am trustworthy, my sensitivity to the circumstances I am faced with, and my strength in the face of opposition or challenge.
My character is very involved with my decisions of my Will.
Integrity
My integrity is definitely an asset, because it speaks out loud that I am ethical in my code of living and can be trusted.
My integrity is valuable in all my decisions through my Will to be just and honest.
Responsibilities
Responsibilities are necessary parts of everyday living.
If I falter in my responsibilities I can deprive others of the time they need to accomplish their responsibilities.
Bearing my responsibilities with dignity and care can strengthen my moral obligations — moral standards and moral values — allowing others to see my feeling about the obligations, and in this my Will, will definitely be pleasing to God.
Nature
My instincts, desires, habits, attitudes, inherent tendencies, activities, personal ideas, ideals, goals, interests, drives, understanding, abilities, disposition, and other characteristics that reflect in what I think, how I handle situations, and what I represent morally or immorally.
Conscience
All the foregoing are involved in my conscience because this is where my moral judgment is definitely tested, resolved, and where the final decision is totally involved.
Will
My Will is the key to Sainthood. Why? Because my Will is the result of moral judgments on everything I am faced with that involves my decisions on right or wrong, good or evil — moral or immoral actions, thoughts, example and words.”
Will
Conscience
Moral Values
Moral Standards
Moral Obligations
Nature
Responsibilities
Integrity
Character
Dependability
Attitude
What does God see when He looks at my Soul?
Do I understand why I have a Soul?
Do I sincerely feel my Soul is in a pure state?”